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Rumpel and Baelfire: Broken family trust

Season 3’s Rumpel is back and the plot thickens as with the rest of the characters. He was on a quest to find his son and redeem himself after abandoning Baelfire, a promise he made himself never to break after experiencing his own father leaving him. After he finally reunited with his son, he felt another chance at life was offered and wanted to redeem the lost time between them. Rumple found Bealfire with the help of Henry, his newly discovered nephew. He however remembers a witch’s prediction that this boy will help him reunite with his son but he will simultaneously be his own demise.

Baelfire is not happy to reunite with his father, having been through his fair share of hardship. He is angry, after all it is a devastating event to presence your own father leaving you in exchange for something else. As a child this is traumatizing and it leaves marks. Baelfire was not open to reconciliation and he was angry. He did not want his father to have closure and reunite with him after apologizing for his mistakes and lost time because he was left for years without closure, alone, wondering why he was abandoned. Why was magic more important than his own son and family?

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Love versus darkness

A significant character in Rumpel’s life, Belle, has been a huge catalyst as she was able to see beyond his darkness and heartless demeanor and was attracted to what she perceived as his good heart underneath. She succeeded in reaching and “deactivating” him with her trust and kindness as Belle was not fearing him and even defied his rules a few times. In season 1, Belle’s love is not enough to help Rumpel bridge over his darkness towards true love;

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Faith and spirituality

Rumpelstiltskin: family or power

The first character I am exploring in this post is Mr Gold/ Rumpelstiskin during the first two seasons which I absolutely adore in his complexity.

Rumpel has dealt with abandonment from his father, the death of his mother, he was called a coward and had lots of public humiliation, one example being when one property owner forced him to kiss his shoe in front of his son. Furthermore, during the war, he lied to his superiors and broke his own leg so he is not forced to fight and risk his life, his injury being the perfect excuse for him to be sent back home. As usual, in life, when it rains it pours and due to rumors having reached his village about the cowardice on the warfront concerning the leg injury, his reputation of a coward has been intensified, and as a result his wife left him and his son. Rumpelstiltskin did not have the courage to stand up for himself in front of these humiliations, this magnifying his fears and cowardice over time.

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Faith and spirituality

Once upon a time…

Hello my loves! I am back on the blog. 🙂 I am bursting with excitement to share beautiful insights and hang out with you in this space online. I will be exploring in the next few posts one of my all-time favorite shows, Once upon a time, which I recently discovered. The first 3 seasons were absolutely amazing in their development. The writers have done an incredible job at weaving simple stories into more complex dichotomies and picturing the inner battle between good and evil inside these characters.

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How chronic health problems taught our family principles we’re using to cope in the midst of the pandemic

Hello everybody! It’s Friday and I felt inspired to share more about all the principles my husband and I learnt from our “winter” season where we had to deal with very painful chronic health problems for 2 straight years. Such a long agonizing time is enough to destabilize any person on this earth and we could have not kept our sanity (hopefully we did) without doing major 360 overhauls to our daily life approach. As they say, everything happens for a reason, and on that note we recently discovered that everything we learnt from that season in our life applies beautifully into the following season. Right now humanity as a whole, more or less, is going through a winter season due to the pandemic. I wanted to share the following lessons with you in the hopes these tips will soothe your pain and offer some relief, strategy and hope if you’re going through a terrible time. Just know that no matter what painful situation you’re going through there is the sun on the other side even though the clouds are completely covering the sky for a while. Let’s dive into it!

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Relationships

Relationship SERIES: Is the individual-oriented mentality more beneficial than the community-oriented one in relationships

Today I wanted to write a short post on the dance between individual and community oriented mentalities in relationships. Depending on your individual culture and where you are in the world, the balance weighs more in the direction of one or the other. In the western culture, the balance is weighed more towards individuality. The needs, wants, preferences and desires of the individual trump the needs and wants of a group whether that is family, group of friends or community at large.

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Relationship SERIES: How to have a thriving and peaceful marriage long term

Welcome back to the blog! Today we are continuing the Relationship Series with one of my favorite topics. Having a thriving marriage when divorce rates are 50% may sound like a ruthless joke and depending on where you find yourself in life, it can seem impossible especially if you have been burnt and hurt like many people’s hearts have been. This will NOT be another post about marriage and relationships meant to take you foreign paths and run after an impossible ideal such as “4 tips ensuring he never leaves” or “how to get what you need right now”. A successful marriage takes diligent work yet not the kind of work that sucks the energy out of you because it has this unique exponential quality that the more you work on yourself the more the marriage grows. There are so many tips I could list that build a strong foundation for marriage it would hardly fit in one blog post. I will try and share the most important pillars that will grow your marriage’s roots stronger:

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Relationship SERIES: The captivating duality of femininity and masculinity

Welcome back to the blog beautiful readers, today’s topic is very dear to my heart and I will explore different facets of it with you in the future as well as I believe our creator has contoured each and every one of us with very unique and specific designs in mind. For that reason, it is important to get to know both ourselves and our creator in order to honor that design. I believe as humans we all have common shared purposes but at the same time, we all have very unique paths we are called to walk on as well. That design is closely tied to the concept of femininity and masculinity. As natural as these topics are, they can be very controversial these days. My vision with discussing this topic is not tying ourselves up into more stereotypes about how femininity and masculinity should look like but instead discover our unique cocktail, get joy from it and become freer.

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Relationship SERIES: Stress in marriage and how women and men can be each other’s best allies in times of stress

This article is the first in the relationship series as I believe the ability to deal with stress and to know oneself, know the signs when we become stressed and how to fulfill our own needs to the best of our ability is an incredible asset to have in our toolbox in order to maintain a harmonious marriage.


Stress is inevitable in our lives, the most important is knowing how to best deal with it. When stress is gone our differences are never a problem. Reminiscing about the beginning of the relationship, we remember feelings of ease, butterflies in the stomach and many joyful smiles. We can absolutely maintain that beautiful state, it just takes some education and discipline. In the beginning, stress is usually lower. Once the relationship unfolds and more routine and daily life difficulties settle in, stress increases.

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